Host

Two weeks ago, I made a confession to my friend.  For the past two months, I have wanted to crawl back into bed and pull the covers over my head.  I thought it would pass but it seems to persist.  I can't say it is any one thing in particular.  I actually sat down and made a list.  Stop laughing.  Lists are good.  I came up with nine possible contributors.  It is fair to say that I am not handling all of the changes in my life or my people's lives as well as one might hope.

So, last week, I called my Grandma and invited her to spend a few days at my house.  I didn't think she would come but she was tickled.  We got to spend time eating ice cream, watching soccer in the rain, and teaching my daughter to play Rummikub amongst a host of other fun things.  My husband was the perfect host and brought her to church for me so she could go to the late service for Installation of our new Senior Pastor and still get in her morning yoga routine.  We could all learn a few things from her.

While she was visiting, my friend invited me for dinner.  When I explained that my Grandma was visiting, she invited her too.  She is not only a really good cook but also a very gracious hostess.  It struck me that hosting is one of the prayers in action that I had never considered.

Today, I went to my cousin's home for a baby shower.  It was really a great event with delcious food, good company, and delightful flowers.  On the way home, I was thinking about what a treat it was to just show up and have a good time.  Now, don't get me wrong, I like to host when I am able but it really is fun to get to see folks without being the one who made it happen. 

At the shower, my sister asked me if I wanted to take home some pumpkin bars.  When I accepted, she said, "Oh good.  I already put them in your car."  She is another hostess who knows how to throw a party and make it look like it was easy.  She has already been busy planning our next adventure.

Earlier this week, I was putting my daughter to bed when she asked if our friend at church was still in the Big House.  When I confirmed that he was but he was supposed to get out the next day she said, "Wow, that's exciting."  Amen, darling.  Amen.

So, today please say a few prayers for our friends with CF.  One is working on her support system and working the long course of IVs.  One is waiting on new lungs and needs perserverance to stay the course.  Another is getting over pneumonia and surgery.  Another that I didn't know personally lost her fight this week.  Her funeral was just down the street from my house. 

Sometimes CF just hits a little too close to home when you are trying really hard to focus on other things.

Blessings,

Cindy